The shadow of mortality fell across Philadelphia on the eighteenth of September, 1780, as Esther Reed, the London-born woman who had become one of the most fervent champions of the American Revolution, succumbed to illness at the age of just thirty-four. Her death, coming a mere seven days before the world would learn of Benedict Arnold’s treachery, marked the end of a life defined by a radical transformation of allegiance, a transformation that saw a daughter of the British Empire become a cornerstone of the Patriot cause. Surrounded by her aged mother, her husband Joseph, and her young children, the oldest of whom was only ten, Esther’s final moments were a testament to a life lived in the service of a nation she had adopted with a passion that surpassed even those born on its soil.
Her story, a remarkable narrative of love, sacrifice, and unwavering conviction, began across the Atlantic in the bustling metropolis of London. Born on October 22, 1746, Esther De Berdt was the only daughter of Dennis De Berdt, a prominent British merchant deeply invested in colonial trade. Her father, a man of high character descended from Huguenot refugees, instilled in her a strict evangelical piety that would guide her throughout her life.
The De Berdt household, owing to its business connections, became a haven for young Americans visiting the imperial capital, and it was within this circle that Esther first encountered Joseph Reed, a promising lawyer from New Jersey who had come to London in 1763 to complete his professional studies at the Temple. The connection was immediate and profound, leading to a secret engagement that would endure a five-year separation, a period of deferred hope with the Atlantic Ocean between them.
During those years of waiting, the political landscape of the British Empire began to fracture. As King George III and his ministers pursued a course of taxation and coercion that pushed the American colonies toward rebellion, Esther’s own sympathies became increasingly clear. Her father, serving as the agent for the Stamp Act Congress and the colonies of Delaware and Massachusetts, made his home a center for those seeking to moderate the Crown’s oppressive policies.
Within this almost American household, Esther’s heart aligned with the colonists. Her letters from this period are filled with a passionate partisanship, revealing a young woman who was, as her biographer Elizabeth F. Ellet would later note, “from first to last a stout American.”
She wrote of her unbounded enthusiasm for William Pitt and her visceral repugnance for George Grenville and Charles Townshend, whom she declared she “cannot bear because they are such enemies to America.” This was the training, unconscious yet profound, that prepared her for her future role.
The political turmoil of the era brought personal tragedy as well. Dennis De Berdt, ruined by the commercial disaster that accompanied the political strife, sank into bankruptcy and an early grave. Despite this ruin, the lovers were reunited, and on May 31, 1770, Esther De Berdt became Esther Reed in a private ceremony at St.
Luke’s Church in London. By November of that same year, the young couple had sailed for America, with Joseph establishing his legal practice in Philadelphia. The transition was not merely geographical; it was a complete immersion into a new identity.
The English girl, who had once admired the pageantry of the British military in London’s parks, was now an American matron, her loyalties irrevocably transferred to her new home. As the colonies moved from peaceful resistance to open conflict, Mrs. Reed’s support for her husband’s activities was ardent and absolute.
When the news of Lexington and Concord galvanized the nation, Joseph Reed was at the forefront of the Patriot movement. In June 1775, he accompanied George Washington as his aide and military secretary, a decision that would take him from his family for extended periods. Esther, watching by the cradle of their two infant children, neither repined nor murmured.
She understood that a high sense of duty compelled her husband, and her role was to love and be silent. The ensuing years brought immense hardship and danger. As the British army advanced, Mrs.
Reed was forced to flee with her children, taking refuge first in Burlington, then at a small farmhouse near Evesham, on the edge of the pines. The terror of the time was a rugged reality, with the threat of Hessian mercenaries and the lawlessness of war creating a constant state of anxiety. In one letter from June 1777, she wrote to her husband of her determination to regain her spirits, acknowledging the pain her distress caused him and vowing to make his duty as light as possible.
The dangers were not only from the enemy. The neighborhood of Philadelphia, after it fell to the British, was infested with gangs of armed loyalists who threatened the safety of every Patriot. Mrs.
Reed’s fears for her husband were constant and well-founded. Yet, through the trials of the winter at Valley Forge and the battles that followed, she remained a pillar of strength. The family suffered a devastating personal loss during this period when one of their children died of smallpox while they were separated from Joseph.
Her letter reflecting on this tragedy is a touching testament to a mother’s heart, filled with self-reproach for not taking necessary precautions and a humble acceptance of the divine lesson she believed the stroke was meant to teach. “Would to God,” she wrote, “I could learn every lesson intended by the stroke.”
In the fall of 1778, Joseph Reed was elected President, or Governor, of Pennsylvania, a position that placed him at the center of intense political turmoil. The administration was marked by bitter partisan conflict, with slander and threats of personal violence becoming commonplace. Through it all, Esther provided a stable and happy home, her smile and contentment serving as a sustaining force for her husband.
Her heroism was of the humble, homely kind, but it did its good work in cheering a spirit that might otherwise have broken under the weight of public life. It was in the fall of 1780, however, that she would make her most famous contribution to the cause. The ladies of Philadelphia, united in a remarkable effort to provide clothing for the suffering soldiers of the Continental Army, placed Mrs.
Reed at the head of their association. The French secretary of legation wrote that she was called to the office as “the best patriot, the most zealous and active, and the most attached to the interests of her country.”
Despite her increasingly feeble health, Mrs. Reed threw herself into the work with great animation. The effort was a resounding success, raising over $7,500 in specie, a considerable sum at a time of great currency depreciation.
Contributions came from all ranks of society, from a servant woman’s humble seven shillings and sixpence to the Marquis de Lafayette’s generous gift of one hundred guineas. Mrs. Reed’s correspondence with General Washington on how to best administer the relief is notable for its business-like intelligence and sound common sense.
She wrote from her country residence on the banks of the Schuylkill as late as August 22, 1780, expressing her anxiety to get to town where she could do more for the soldiers. But the heroic spirit was overtasked. The disease that developed in early September ran its fatal course with alarming speed, and on September 18, 1780, Esther Reed was gone.
Her death brought a moment of unity to the fractious political landscape of Philadelphia. All classes joined in a hearty tribute to her memory, a recognition of a woman whose life was a testament to the power of conviction. The contrast with another woman of the era could not be more stark.
Just one week after Esther Reed was laid to rest, Benedict Arnold’s wife, Peggy Shippen, a native-born Philadelphian from a loyalist family, was reeling from the news of her husband’s exposed treason. While Esther Reed and her friends toiled to relieve the suffering of the soldiers, Peggy Arnold had been communing with her husband in his hatreds and discontents, creating an environment in which treachery could flourish. The two women represent the polar extremes of the Revolutionary era: the immigrant who embraced her adopted country with a passion that cost her her life, and the native who aided in its betrayal and died a fugitive in England.
Esther Reed, the English-born patriot, rests in a grave in Philadelphia, honored and lamented, a permanent reminder that true patriotism is a matter of the heart, not of birth.