More than a decade after his death, the family of Bee Gees legend Robin Gibb is finally speaking out, confirming long-whispered rumors about his open marriage, a secret daughter, his estrangement from brother Barry, and the miraculous final days before cancer took him at 62.

The revelations, shared by Gibb’s children and his widow, Dwina Murphy Gibb, pull back the curtain on a life the public only thought it understood — one defined as much by inner torment as by the shimmering falsetto harmonies that made him a global icon.
Robin Hugh Gibb was born on December 22, 1949, at the Jane Crookall Maternity Home on the Isle of Man, arriving just 35 minutes ahead of his twin brother, Maurice. The boys, raised by music-loving parents Hugh and Barbara Gibb, would go on to reshape popular music forever.
But before the fame, there was mischief. The Gibb brothers were known for lighting small fires, pulling pranks, and testing the patience of every adult around them. That restless energy, family members now say, was the raw material of genius waiting for an outlet.
That outlet arrived in the mid-1950s, when Barry, Robin, and Maurice began mimicking the Everly Brothers and Paul Anka, unknowingly forging the tight, layered vocal style that would become their signature. By 1955 they were performing as the Rattlesnakes in Manchester.
In 1958, the family boarded a ship bound for Australia — traveling, by pure coincidence, with a young Red Symons, who would later find his own fame in music. Australia gave the brothers a fresh start and, by 1960, their first television appearance on “Strictly for Moderns.”
Robin was only 10 years old, but his soft, trembling, surprisingly mature voice stopped people cold. By 1965, when he took the lead on “I Don’t Think It’s Funny,” listeners realized they were hearing something extraordinary — a voice the world would one day cry over.
Yet even as success mounted, trouble was already brewing. Fame arrived faster than the brothers were prepared for, and it demanded more from them than they knew how to give. For Robin, the personal cost would prove devastating.
In 1968, at just 18, he married Molly Hullis, a secretary for their manager Robert Stigwood. Their bond was forged in tragedy — both survived the Hither Green rail crash, a disaster that killed nearly 50 people and injured many more.
For a few years, Robin appeared to have everything: fame, love, and a seemingly solid future. But by the early 1970s, he was living mostly in America while Molly remained in the UK raising their children, Spencer and Melissa. The separation slowly corroded the marriage.
Friends later described worsening mood swings, bursts of manic energy followed by crushing exhaustion, and long nights of paranoia in which Robin became convinced that Molly and her lawyers were plotting against him. He began using stimulants, including amphetamines and methadrine.
By 1980, Molly filed for divorce. The split turned bitter when Robin violated a court order by speaking publicly about the marriage. In 1983, he was jailed for 14 days — a humiliating chapter for a man of his stature, and one of the first public cracks in his carefully guarded image.
In 1985, Robin married Dwina Murphy Gibb, an artist and writer whose spiritual outlook and creativity matched his own. She restored a measure of stability to his life, and together they divided their time between Miami, the Isle of Man, and a historic Oxfordshire estate called the Prebendal.
But the marriage operated under rules the public never knew. After Robin’s death, Dwina confirmed what had only ever been whispered: theirs was an open marriage. That openness led to one of the most persistent rumors of Robin’s later life — his long relationship with Claire Yang, a housekeeper in their home.
The relationship began around 2001, when Robin was nearly 50, and continued for years. In 2008, Claire gave birth to Robin’s daughter, Snow. To outsiders it looked like a scandal waiting to detonate.
What nobody knew was that Dwina had already accepted the arrangement.
Her later comments were calm, almost serene. She was not a jealous person, she said, and both Claire and Snow were cared for. Her words confirmed what fans had speculated about for years — that the Gibb household followed rules the public never understood.
Even so, the situation created tension. Robin struggled to balance two households, remain loyal to his older children, and carry the guilt of a relationship that had long since outgrown the private sphere. His longing for peace in music and in life was constantly at war with his own choices.
There was also friction at work. Tension with Barry Gibb over who should sing lead had simmered since “Massachusetts” became a hit in 1967. For Robin, watching Barry assume more control felt like being slowly erased, and in 1969 he briefly left the group.
They reunited in 1970, but old grudges never fully healed. Fans heard flawless harmony; behind the microphones, the brothers fought over control, identity, and who deserved to be heard. Those unresolved feelings, mixed with Robin’s personal turmoil, fed rumors that never faded.
The first great rupture came in 1969. Then came the blow no one could prepare for: Maurice Gibb, Robin’s twin and the family’s peacemaker, died in 2003. His death shattered the fragile balance that had held Barry and Robin together.
In the aftermath, Barry grew angry amid suspicions that Maurice’s widow, Yvonne, and her family were planning a tribute album for profit rather than tribute. The dispute became a public feud, with Barry openly saying Maurice’s memory was being exploited.
Caught in the middle was Robin, desperate to honor his twin while the war between Barry and Yvonne’s side made everything agonizing. Rumors spread that Robin kept working on Bee Gees projects while Barry, hurt and disappointed, stepped away.
What the public saw was a fight over an album. What Robin’s children later described was something far deeper — a battle over grief, identity, and who had the right to represent the Bee Gees after Maurice was gone. The distance between Barry and Robin only widened.

By the early 2000s, the brothers barely spoke. Tragically, Robin never told Barry he had cancer. Barry later said he only learned of the illness when Robin was already dying — a revelation he described as heartbreak beyond words.
For Barry, the silence was bewildering. For Robin, it reflected years of emotional distance and wounds that never healed. His children now confirm what fans long suspected: the brothers loved each other deeply, but fame, competition, and loss built barriers none of them ever broke down.
By 2011, Robin was fighting a battle he could no longer hide. The diagnosis was devastating: colon cancer that had already spread to his liver. Yet even as his body weakened, he radiated hope, insisting in interviews that he would recover.
His voice grew thinner, his frame more frail, but the optimism held. Those close to him said he clung to that belief with a determination that bordered on stubbornness. Treatment was brutal — surgeries, chemotherapy, and relentless pain consumed his days.
Still, Robin refused to stop working. Even attached to hospital equipment, he continued composing the “Titanic Requiem” with his son, R. J.
, a symphonic tribute marking the 100th anniversary of the Titanic’s sinking. For Robin, the project became a metaphor for his own endurance.
By April 2012, the disease had overwhelmed him. He contracted pneumonia and fell into a coma. Doctors quietly told the family there was nothing more they could do.
Dwina, R. J. , and loved ones gathered at his bedside to say goodbye.
Then something happened that his children still describe with amazement. As Dwina played music from the “Titanic Requiem” in the room, Robin’s fingers began to move. Moments later, his eyes opened.
He smiled. Doctors called it a medical mystery; R. J.
called it a miracle.
For a few brief days, Robin was back — talking quietly, humming songs, telling his family he wanted to return to the stage. Weak and fading, he was still thinking about music, still dreaming of performing, still fighting in the only way he knew how.
But the miracle could not last. His kidneys failed, his liver gave out, and the disease claimed what little strength remained. On May 20, 2012, surrounded by Dwina, R.
J. , and those who loved him most, Robin Gibb died at the age of 62.

According to Dwina, he passed peacefully, smiling, his hand in hers — unafraid, at peace, and filled with music until the very last moment. To his children, that final smile revealed who he truly was: gentle, hopeful, and unstoppable in spirit.
In the years after his death, the family stayed quiet, guarding his privacy as they always had. But gradually, his children — especially R. J.
— began speaking publicly, not to expose him, but to explain him, confirming rumors and filling in the missing pieces of a far more complex life.
Dwina’s calm disclosure of the open marriage was among the first revelations. She explained that the relationship with Claire Yang and Snow’s birth in 2008 were not betrayals in the conventional sense. Snow was provided for; Claire was cared for.
Her honesty confirmed decades of whispers.
Details of Robin’s estate also emerged. His will left an estimated 26 million pounds primarily to Dwina, Spencer, Melissa, and R. J.
Snow, though not listed as a main heir, was privately supported. The family handled the matter quietly to avoid the legal battles that have torn other celebrity families apart.
Most powerful of all were R. J.’ s memories of his father’s final moments.
He described holding Robin’s head and whispering, “We love you,” as his father took his last breaths. He shared stories of late-night studio sessions from his childhood, watching Robin write music — not because he had to, but because he did not know how to live without it.
R. J. now performs some of Robin’s unpublished works, ensuring his father’s creative voice survives beyond death.
Through their words, Robin’s children confirmed what so many suspected: behind the harmonies and the scandals, behind the incredible highs and devastating lows, he was a man driven by love and haunted by inner battles.
What emerges from their testimony is not merely scandal or sadness, but the portrait of an artist who gave everything to his craft, even when it cost him personally. His trembling, unforgettable voice touched millions, yet behind every note was a person fighting battles most of us never saw.
The open marriage, the estrangement from Barry, the drugs, the cancer — all of it existed alongside the genius that produced timeless music. His children share these stories not to tear him down, but so the world can see him fully: flawed, complicated, and deeply human.
In the end, Robin Gibb was more than one-third of the Bee Gees. He was a father who wrote music until his final breath, a brother whose love was complicated by fame and competition, a husband who lived by rules the world did not understand, and an artist who refused to stop creating even as his body failed him.
The silence has been broken. The truth is out. And through it all, the music remains — still beautiful, still haunting, still unmistakably Robin.