Sally Field is saying goodbye after tragic diagnosis #TM

LOS ANGELES — Sally Field, the two-time Academy Award-winning actress whose five-decade career made her one of Hollywood’s most beloved and enduring stars, is quietly stepping back from public life as concerns mount over her health and a series of personal struggles that have remained largely hidden from view.

Sources close to the actress describe a woman who has spent years battling a silent, progressive illness while also confronting the emotional weight of a lifetime of trauma, heartbreak, and professional disappointment. At the center of the growing concern is Field’s long-standing diagnosis of osteoporosis, a debilitating bone disease she has lived with since 2005.

The condition, which causes bones to become fragile and highly susceptible to fractures, was discovered almost by accident. Field has said she experienced no visible symptoms and no pain in the early stages, a hallmark of what physicians commonly call “the silent disease.” By the time she received the diagnosis, the damage was already underway.

In interviews over the years, Field has been remarkably candid about her risk factors. She has noted that she was over fifty, Caucasian, slender, small-framed, and had a family history of the illness, a combination that made her diagnosis, in her own words, “almost a slam dunk.” Rather than retreat, she chose to speak out.

She became one of the most prominent celebrity advocates for bone health awareness, urging women to request bone density screenings during routine medical visits. In a candid conversation with Oprah Winfrey, Field made a direct appeal to women across the country, asking them to demand a bone density test when they go in for a pap smear.

She repeatedly warned that one in every two women over the age of fifty will suffer an osteoporosis-related fracture, yet most remain unaware of how serious the danger truly is. She later launched a national campaign aimed at educating women about the risks and pushing them to get tested before it was too late.

Field has acknowledged that despite eating well, exercising regularly, and maintaining adequate calcium intake, she could not stop the progression of the disease. The actress, now in her late seventies, has continued to manage the condition privately while making fewer and fewer public appearances.

Those close to her say the reduced visibility is not simply a matter of health. Field has also made a deliberate choice to age naturally in an industry that has long rewarded youth and punished women for growing older. She has never undergone cosmetic surgery and has refused to hide her wrinkles or her gray hair.

In a 2016 interview, she spoke with striking honesty about the experience of watching herself age on screen. She described noticing the changes in her neck, the lowering of her face, and the swelling around her eyes, admitting that she sometimes wished it were not happening. Yet she refused to surrender her self-respect to those feelings.

She has consistently advised women to embrace who they are in the present rather than chase the appearance of their younger selves. That philosophy, however, did not shield her from cruelty. In 2018, Field became the target of vicious online trolls who mocked her appearance and made harsh, degrading comments about her looks.

The attacks highlighted what many observers describe as the ugliest side of social media, particularly its treatment of aging women. It mattered little that Field had spent her life portraying powerful characters and advocating for women’s health. Some users continued to abuse her simply for the crime of growing older.

Through it all, the actress remained remarkably resilient. Those who know her say she has long understood what truly matters. She has experienced love, grief, illness, and heartbreak.

She has raised children and weathered the extraordinary highs and crushing lows of a Hollywood career that few could ever match.

Her stillness has not gone unnoticed. In September 2024, Field was photographed walking her dog, Dash, in Los Angeles. She wore a striped blouse, white capri pants, and a large sun hat.

The image was modest, casual, and peaceful, a far cry from the glamour of her red-carpet years.

Yet the photographs startled many admirers. Some observers remarked that she appeared strikingly thin. Others went further, claiming she looked almost unrecognizable.

The reaction underscored the intense public scrutiny that has followed Field throughout her life, even in her quietest moments.

She briefly returned to social media the same year, not to address her health but to endorse Kamala Harris and urge Americans to vote. In one post, she shared an image of herself with her dog, writing simply, “This is me and my dog Dash. Buckle up.”

The next day, she followed with a direct appeal to the electorate.

“Vote for our country, our children, and grandchildren,” she wrote. “I will be your best buddy.” The messages reflected a woman who, despite her withdrawal from acting, remained deeply engaged with the issues she has championed for decades.

But her film career, by all accounts, has effectively stalled.

Her most recent major motion picture, “80 for Brady,” was released in early 2023. Since then, no substantial roles have come her way. Field herself has said publicly that Hollywood does not provide enough parts for older women, a reality that has left one of its most decorated actresses without a stage.

That lack of opportunity, combined with her ongoing health difficulties, may explain why she is spending more time at home. She has also spoken openly about the role her children played during her darkest moments. According to accounts that have circulated online, Field has said her children saved her life.

Some publications now characterize her as fragile and isolated from the spotlight. But those who have followed her career closely reject that framing. They point to a woman who has survived a plane crash, two divorces, the suicide of a former partner, childhood abuse, and a lifetime of industry sexism, and who still stands.

That resilience was nearly tested in the most catastrophic way imaginable. In 1988, Field came dangerously close to death when a private plane carrying her, her then-husband Alan Greisman, and their eleven-month-old son Sam attempted to take off and abruptly lost control, colliding with another parked aircraft.

The plane did not explode, though it was saturated with jet fuel and everyone on board was covered in it. Field later told People magazine that her only thought in those terrifying seconds was to hold on to Sam. She said she did not care if she broke every single bone in her body.

She feared she had crushed her baby during the collision, but Sam was unharmed. Reflecting on the inexplicable survival of everyone aboard, Field said it made no logical sense that the plane did not explode and that they were still alive. She added that she has had to live with that feeling ever since.

The moment haunted her for years. It was not merely about survival. It was about being a mother, a wife, and confronting the prospect of death in a matter of seconds.

But it would not be the last time Field experienced profound suffering, nor the last time she was forced to summon extraordinary strength.

Her romantic history was equally turbulent, marked by relationships that remained hidden for years and others that played out in the full glare of the tabloid press. During the 1960s and 1970s, as her career soared, so did her dating life, and one of the first names linked to her was actor Lee Majors.

The two were both rising stars at the time, though their relationship was never formally confirmed. A 1972 report claimed they had been together for some time. Majors later appeared to hint at their romance in the lyrics of “Unknown Stunt Man,” the theme song for his television series “The Fall Guy.”

In the song, he boasts, “I’ve been on fire with Sally Field.” While hardly a full confession, the line convinced many that the story was real. Earlier, in 1967, Field had dated Pete Duel, who portrayed her brother-in-law on “Gidget.”

Their romance began after the show concluded.

In an interview that year, Field downplayed the relationship, saying it was not a significant matter and that they were simply having fun. She expressed frustration at the public’s obsession with her private life, asking why people could not leave it alone. But their story would end in tragedy.

On December 31, 1971, Pete Duel died by suicide. Years later, Field revealed how deeply she had cared for him. In a 2007 video, she said she loved him, adored him, and blessed him, before adding a raw and anguished curse because he was no longer living.

She said he treated her like a sister despite her desire for more.

In 1968, she also had a brief romance with Davy Jones of The Monkees. The relationship was never exclusive, but Field said they joked and had a good time together. She recalled in an old interview that they always laughed and goofed around.

However, not everything from that period was lighthearted.

Field later said that several of The Monkees made sexual comments about her while she was filming “The Flying Nun.” She claimed they even besieged her in her trailer, forcing her to rely on an assistant for protection. It was one of many experiences she would not discuss publicly until decades later.

Her relationships continued over the years, but some left scars she did not speak about until much later in life. Even after becoming a major star, Field still faced obstacles behind closed doors, including the pressures of marriage, motherhood, and the relentless demand to keep moving forward.

In 1968, Field married Steven Craig, the man she had a crush on in high school. They remained together during the early years of her success. He was not a Hollywood celebrity and worked in the construction industry while she was starring in “The Flying Nun.”

She soon discovered she was pregnant.

Their first child, Peter, was born in November 1969. Their second son, Eli, arrived in May 1972. The couple divorced in 1975, and Field has said little about that chapter of her life.

Years later, Peter offered his own perspective on what it was like to grow up with two theatrical parents.

He said he was aware from an early age that his mother was not like other mothers and that his father was not really like other fathers. He described his upbringing as an intense experience, one shaped by two dramatic personalities. He later became a writer and married a poet.

Field subsequently married Alan Greisman, the man who was with her during the 1988 plane disaster. During that marriage, they welcomed their son Sam. The relationship did not last, and the couple divorced in 1994.

Field later said Greisman wanted to go out, be with other people, and attend parties.

She said it was too much for her to bear and that she began to experience anxiety, sensing that their home had lost its joy. She observed that they focused on the negative aspects of each other rather than recognizing the positive qualities they cared about. Still, they continued to co-parent Sam together.

Actress Kate Capshaw, who was once married to Steven Spielberg, described the couple’s divorce as remarkably amicable and their ability to co-parent as exceptional. Field did not give up on love, even after two marriages and a series of high-profile relationships, but she began to withdraw from public romance.

In 1995, she made a significant public appearance with Jerry Knight, a film and television technician, accompanying her to the premiere of “Waterworld.” That same year, she took him to the Emmy Awards, where they walked the red carpet smiling and holding hands. The relationship did not endure.

This time, the split was peaceful. After it ended, Field was no longer seen in public with any new companions. She focused on her acting ventures and, above all, on raising her son.

With little to report about her romantic life, the press gradually ceased following her, and she found a measure of peace.

Years later, in 2021, Field affirmed that she was content as a single person during an event hosted by Live Talks LA. She said she was reflecting on all her previous relationships and the lessons she had gained from them, examining how she had been trained to perceive love and how she would continually hunt for it.

She admitted that unless she was also terrified, she did not feel seen and loved, a realization she described as a clear problem. She then smiled and remarked that she no longer even bothers to try. She added that she truly did not want to pick up someone else’s underpants in the morning.

Not everyone gave up hope that Field would find love again. New England Patriots quarterback Tom Brady joked about her while working on “80 for Brady,” saying they had enjoyed their time together and would see where it went. But Field appeared certain of one thing: she is finally content with who she is.

Throughout her long career, Field worked with a great many famous people, but her time with Robin Williams proved to be one of the most emotionally moving experiences of her life. In 1993, while filming “Mrs. Doubtfire,” an event occurred that would forever alter the course of her life and reveal Williams’s hidden depths.

Preparing for a courtroom scene, Field was sitting in her camper on the set when she received a phone call. Her father, who had suffered a stroke years earlier and was residing in a nursing facility, had suffered another major stroke. Field was forced to make the agonizing decision to remove him from life support.

She returned to work and did her best to continue filming despite her overwhelming grief. She later said she was trying with all her might to act, that she did not shed a tear and did not utter a single word. But Robin Williams sensed that something was profoundly wrong and gently pulled her away from the crowd.

He asked what had happened. When she told him, he did not hesitate. He said, “Oh my god, we have to get you out of here right now.”

After speaking with the team, Williams arranged for filming to continue without her for the rest of the day, allowing her to return home and begin making arrangements.

Field said it was a facet of Williams that almost no one knew, describing him as a man of extraordinary sensitivity and intuition. Williams died in 2014, and Field later expressed that she was completely stunned and deeply saddened, calling him special in every way and saying there would never be another like him.

Field’s life has been a struggle from the very beginning. She was born on November 6, 1946, in Pasadena, California. Her mother, Margaret Field, was an actress, and her father, Richard Field, was a pharmacist who served in the military during World War II.

The couple divorced in 1950, when Sally was a young child.

Her mother later married Jock Mahoney, a stuntman and actor, in Tijuana, Mexico, in 1952. Field’s brother, Richard Dryden Field Jr. , went on to become a physicist.

Her ancestry traced back to Sicily on her father’s side, along with English and Irish heritage. She attended Portola Middle School and Birmingham High School.

She was a cheerleader during her school years, and several of her classmates later achieved fame, including Michael Milken and Michael Ovitz. Actress Cindy Williams was one year ahead of her. But while Field appeared to be a typical schoolgirl on the outside, life at home was profoundly different and deeply traumatic.

In her 2018 memoir, Field revealed some of the most painful details of her childhood. She wrote that she had been molested by her stepfather, Jock Mahoney, when she was a little girl. She described how he would invite her into his room and ask her to walk on his back, then roll over and touch her as she walked.

She recalled the words “one foot in front of the other, up his chest” as she crept up on him while her nightgown hung loosely around her legs. His hands traveled up and then glided over her legs. Despite her efforts, he would murmur, “Lower, lower.”

She was unable to avoid his grasp.

The experience left her confused and uncertain about how to react. She wrote that if he had restrained her and raped her, it would have been a different set of circumstances, but he did not. She questioned whether it could have been love, asking herself that if he loved her, why would he do that.

She wrote that the abuse ceased when she was fourteen years old, but the memory of it has followed her throughout her life. Even after she entered the realm of celebrity, she continued to experience that same suffering well into adulthood, carrying a burden that few around her could see or understand.

Field made her debut in the world of television in the comedy series “Gidget,” which ran from 1965 to 1966. “The Flying Nun” followed from 1967 to 1970, and “The Girl with Something Extra” aired from 1973 to 1974. Her first film appearance came earlier, in 1962, as an extra in “Moon Pilot.”

She went on to star in numerous films, including “The Way West” in 1967, “Stay Hungry” in 1976, “Smokey and the Bandit” in 1977, “Heroes” in 1977, “The End” in 1978, and “Hooper” in 1978. Her performance in “Sybil” in 1976 marked the beginning of her career as a serious dramatic actor.

She received the Primetime Emmy Award for her performance in that television film. Her role in “Norma Rae” earned her the Academy Award for Best Actress in 1979. In 1984, she won her second Academy Award for her performance in “Places in the Heart.”

The accolades proved she was far more than a television celebrity.

She appeared in a string of acclaimed films, including “Absence of Malice” in 1981, “Kiss Me Goodbye” in 1982, “Murphy’s Romance” in 1985, “Steel Magnolias” in 1989, “Soapdish” in 1991, “Mrs. Doubtfire” in 1993, and “Forrest Gump” in 1994. She returned to television in the 2000s.

In 2001, she won yet another Emmy for her guest-starring role on “ER.” She was nominated for an Emmy for her performance as Nora Walker in the drama series “Brothers and Sisters,” which she portrayed from 2006 until its conclusion in 2011. Her role as Mary Todd Lincoln in “Lincoln” earned her another Oscar nomination.

She also played Aunt May in “The Amazing Spider-Man” in 2012 and its sequel in 2014. She worked on “Hello, My Name Is Doris” in 2015, the Netflix series “Maniac” in 2018, and “80 for Brady” in 2023. She also performed on stage, making her Broadway debut in 2002 in “The Goat, or Who Is Sylvia?”

In 2017, she returned to Broadway with “The Glass Menagerie,” earning a Tony Award nomination. In 2019, she performed in the West End production of “All My Sons” in London. Despite her thriving career, she remained haunted by the anguish of her past and the new challenges she faced behind the scenes.

Field endured painful experiences throughout her time in Hollywood. In her memoir, she recounted an incident in 1968 when she was molested by songwriter Jimmy Webb. After they smoked together, she fell asleep, and when she awoke, she discovered he was rubbing against her.

She was confused and blamed herself.

She wondered whether she had brought it on herself by lying down on his bed, whether she had failed to pull her jeans up properly, and what he was supposed to think. Webb later stated that they had a typical relationship similar to that of many people in their twenties, refuting her account of the events.

For Field, however, the moment was real, and she remembered it for a long time. She also discussed another unsettling encounter during an audition. In 1976, she was auditioning for the film “Stay Hungry” when the director, Bob Rafelson, allegedly told her he would only hire someone capable of kissing effectively.

She kissed him and later wrote that it must have been satisfactory. Rafelson denied the assertion, saying he never forced anyone to kiss him in order to get a part. Field maintained her account.

It was not uncommon for young women in Hollywood to endure such situations, but very few discussed them openly.

It was not until much later in life that Field did. The more she disclosed, the more others could see the suffering that accompanied her achievement. There was yet more she had concealed, a secret she was unable to reveal until a later time, one that would shape her advocacy for decades to come.

Field disclosed another sensitive experience from her adolescence that she had hidden for a considerable amount of time. In 1964, when she was seventeen years old, she discovered she was pregnant. She was about to begin her first significant television role in “Gidget” at the time, a moment that could have defined her career.

While in Mexico, her stepfather, the same man who had abused her, arranged for her to get an abortion. At that time, abortion was not permitted in the United States. Her mother and a family friend accompanied her.

She did not reveal the identity of the boy responsible for her pregnancy, only that she met him after high school.

She did not disclose the encounter to anyone else and continued on with her professional life. In later years, she became vocal in her advocacy for reproductive rights. In 2022, she told Variety that the men engaging in such restrictive behavior, along with their predominantly male rulers, were backward, stupid, and power-hungry.

She said that in her view, such laws were illegal. She believed those laws were an attempt to undo the gains accomplished for minority groups, people of color, and the LGBTQ community. Her voice joined a growing chorus of women in Hollywood using their platforms to fight for bodily autonomy and equal rights.

Field’s story is one of extraordinary endurance. She has survived a plane crash, childhood abuse, sexual misconduct, the suicide of a former partner, two divorces, a chronic illness, and an industry that has often discarded women as they age. Yet she has remained, in the words of Steven Spielberg, a figure of audacity and enduring influence.

Spielberg, who once came close to dating her decades ago, praised her in 2022 for defying the town’s tendency to stereotype her and for breaking past every barrier. He said he was impressed by her boldness, her astute choices, and her lasting impact on the Hollywood industry, a testament to a singular career.

Whether Sally Field is truly bidding farewell to the spotlight remains uncertain. What is clear is that she has nothing left to prove. She has spent her whole life battling quietly, and when she finally began to tell her story, the world witnessed how strong she truly was, even while she was hurting within.

For now, she appears to be choosing peace over publicity, walking her dog through the streets of Los Angeles, advocating for the causes she believes in, and embracing the natural passage of time. It is, by all accounts, exactly the ending she has earned, and perhaps the one she has always deserved.

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