LONDON — A crumpled envelope, misdirected and nearly discarded, has altered the course of a career thought to be finished. In the mid-1990s, Nick Lowe, a man on the verge of being written out of music history, opened a letter that was not meant for him. Inside was a check large enough to change everything, a windfall from a song he had dashed off two decades earlier as a young man, a song most of the world believed belonged to someone else entirely.
He has never even watched the film that made him rich.
Lowe’s story is a peculiar brand of fortune that only strikes those who have stopped expecting it. It arrived late, uninvited, and with a touch of irony that suits the man perfectly. He was never serious, always lucky, and wonderfully entertaining.
This is the tale of a British pop craftsman who was dropped by his label, divorced from his famous Nashville family, and left for dead by the industry, only to rise again on his own terms, armed with a quiet wit and a stubborn refusal to fade away.
Born Nicholas Drain Lowe on March 24, 1949, in Walton-on-Thames, Surrey, his life seemed scripted for adventure. His father, Geoffrey Drain Lowe, was a Royal Air Force wing commander who had flown bombing raids over Germany during World War II. In peacetime, he was known for dressing as an elderly woman at air shows before rushing from the crowd, climbing into a plane, and performing aerobatic loops above astonished spectators.
His mother, Patricia, came from the world of English music halls, a vanishing realm of plate-spinning acts and performing dogs. Her father was a gifted pianist known as “Dod Vennier,” whose own mother kept him in short trousers well into adulthood, a humiliation that, as Lowe tells it, drove him to drink.
Between aviation and theatrical performance, there was no chance of a normal job for the young Lowe. He spent stretches of his childhood on military bases in Amman and Cyprus, a military brat pushing toy cars on Jordanian tiles alongside a young King Hussein, who admired his father and would sometimes come by the house in his new sports car. His mother gave him a ukulele and a stack of records, including a strange Tennessee Ernie Ford single, “Fat Back Louisiana, U.
S. A. ,” which the young Lowe learned phonetically, as if it were French, fascinated by lyrics about grits and black-eyed peas, all of it food that sounded disgusting to him.
It was the first symptom of a lifelong condition: a British boy incurably in love with the sound of America.
Sent to boarding school in Suffolk around 1963, he volunteered to play bass in a band, and a friend from woodworking class built him an instrument that had to be tuned with pliers. That group didn’t last. Lowe left school dreaming of becoming a war correspondent, fascinated by the hard-drinking, hard-living men with old typewriters who came to brief his father, but the dream quietly died at a local newspaper when he was sent to review a Disney film, got drunk, and slept through the entire screening.
Journalism’s loss was music’s gain, though it’s hard to imagine the profession would have tolerated him.
He returned instead to his old schoolmate Brinsley Schwarz, who had a mid-60s pop band called Kippington Lodge, and immediately issued a decree: “No more session players. I said, ‘This has to stop, chaps. We have to play on our own records.
What kind of band are we?'” It turned out they were a band with a terrible sound without session players, and they were dropped instantly, but they persisted, drifting toward the informal Americana of Crosby, Stills & Nash and renaming themselves after their guitarist. Lowe grabbed the bass, the microphone, and the pen, and began writing the songs that would become legendary.
Among them was a tune called “What’s So Funny ‘Bout Peace, Love, and Understanding?”
Then came the disaster that taught him everything he needed to know about the music business. In the spring of 1970, the band’s management concocted a publicity stunt of such magnitude it may never have been matched. They were to fly a plane full of British journalists across the Atlantic to see Brinsley Schwarz perform at the Fillmore East in New York, opening for Van Morrison and Quicksilver Messenger Service.
Almost nothing went as planned. Three band members couldn’t get visas and had to sneak into the U. S.
via Canada. The chartered Aer Lingus plane broke down on the runway at Shannon Airport, while more than a hundred journalists, already drinking free at the airport bar and heavily stocked with their own supplies, turned the flight into a raucous party at 40,000 feet once it finally took off. The band arrived at the Fillmore ten minutes before soundcheck, played on borrowed equipment to a crowd of drunks and skeptics, and woke up to headlines describing the entire event as the greatest publicity hype ever, according to Melody Maker.
The one positive thing to come out of the fiasco, according to guitarist Brinsley Schwarz, was seeing Van Morrison, who played after them and was amazing. “We realized we weren’t in the same league, and we had to get much better.” They did, by shrinking their band.
Feeling humiliated, they turned fiercely anti-commercial, moved into a communal house in Northwood, Middlesex, and began striving to become the best pub band in England. It nearly drove Lowe crazy. Around 1971, after years of heavy LSD use, he suffered a nervous breakdown.
“I had to be led around literally for nine months. I was covered in lice, and I looked like a miserable hippie,” he later told journalist Will Birch. He cut his hair, swapped LSD for the more socially acceptable poison of alcohol, which was then considered a cure for addiction, and dove into the scruffy, simple pub rock scene that would later be known as the backlash against the pomp and arrogance of progressive rock.
Every week, Brinsley Schwarz would learn the latest hits and play them alongside their own material. Every week, one or two nervous teenagers would approach the stage. One of them, a boy with glasses named Declan McManus, would later borrow the name of the King of Rock and Roll and become Elvis Costello.
After five albums, the world remained notably indifferent, and in 1975, Brinsley Schwarz fell apart. Lowe, alone and broke, took anything offered. He toured America as a soundman for Dr.
Feelgood, joined a California band called Clover, and released a cheeky, rude single in praise of the Bay City Rollers under the pseudonym the Tartan Horde, which, in a joke the universe clearly enjoyed at his expense, became a hit in Japan.
Then two managers from the pub rock scene, fiery Jake Riviera and brainy Dave Robinson, founded a record label from a shop front, financed by a £400 loan from Dr. Feelgood’s Lee Brilleaux. They called it Stiff.
Its slogans were “If it ain’t stiff, it ain’t worth a fuck” and other simple ones like “Play loud.” Its first artist, main producer, and reason for existing was Nick Lowe. The first single, catalog number BUY 1, was Lowe’s “So It Goes,” backed with “Heart of the City,” recorded on the cheap and released on August 14, 1976.
Lowe had written it while managing a Graham Parker tour, worried about a descending guitar riff he’d nicked from Thin Lizzy’s “The Boys Are Back in Town.” “There was that little descending thing that touched my heart, so I started singing, ‘So it goes, so it goes, so it goes,’ while I was walking around doing my tour manager duties,” he recalled. The record barely sold, though it easily recouped its paltry cost, and carried two messages etched into the run-out groove: “Earthlings awake” and “Three chord trick, yeah.”
In the studio, he had already acquired the nickname that would stick for life. His method was speed and instinct, capturing the magic of a take before anyone could overthink and ruin it. He summed up his philosophy with characteristic boast: “Do it quickly and make it better later.”
They called him “Basher,” and it stuck. What Basher accomplished over the next eighteen months is considered the bedrock of British punk and new wave, which is ironic, because he was its temperamental opposite, a gentle, sentimental soul raised on Sam Cooke and Tennessee Ernie Ford. On October 22, 1976, more than a month before the Sex Pistols could get an album out, Stiff released the Damned’s “New Rose,” recorded in one day at Pathway Studios, now considered the first British punk single.
Its parent album, “Damned, Damned, Damned,” followed in February as the first British punk long-player. At 27, Lowe felt like a chaperone in the room. “The Damned used to call me Uncle or Dad,” he said.
He also spawned a bespectacled admirer. All five of Elvis Costello’s opening albums, a series so highly regarded it now reads like a genealogy, were produced by Lowe. Costello was fully aware of what he was getting.
“Nick’s production style was one of tremendous enthusiasm for the moment, and he seemed to have a firm belief that what we had just played was the best thing ever.” Lowe produced the Pretenders’ first single, “Stop Your Sobbing,” and two of Graham Parker’s best albums, and produced “Milk and Alcohol,” the only hit Dr. Feelgood ever had, and called a four-song EP “Bow without the E,” just to provoke David Bowie, who had just released an album called “Low,” also without an “E.”
He was playfully cynical about the whole carnival, and being both an artist and a producer sharpened his cynicism. “I heard how record company people talked about artists with contempt, and I sometimes joined in,” he admitted.
His own records were sharper than they appeared. His debut solo album appeared in Britain in 1978 under the provocative title “Jesus of Cool,” which was deemed too bold for American record store owners and was renamed “Pure Pop for Now People” in the U. S.
It yielded the top-ten single “I Love the Sound of Breaking Glass,” a shiny melody over lyrics carrying a veiled threat, the magic trick Lowe has spent his life perfecting. The following year, “Labour of Lust” delivered the song everyone knows, “Cruel to Be Kind,” a tart pop gem co-written years earlier with former Brinsley bandmate Ian Gomm. It reached number twelve on both sides of the Atlantic and remains the commercial peak of his career.
Around that time, Lowe also joined Rockpile, a raucous rock and roll band he fronted with the enthusiastic Welsh guitarist Dave Edmunds, with Billy Bremner on guitar and Terry Williams on drums. Due to contract clauses, the four men recorded albums released under Lowe’s or Edmunds’ name, a trick ahead of its time by a quarter century. Edmunds even appeared in the promotional film for “Cruel to Be Kind,” playing the driver taking the newlyweds from the church.
The wedding was real, and so was the bride. Nick Lowe met Carlene Carter in 1978 at a London recording session for one of her albums, where Edmunds was producing and Lowe was playing bass. He asked her out a few days later.
She came to watch him mime “I Love the Sound of Breaking Glass” on “Top of the Pops,” wearing, as she remembered, a Riddler suit covered in question marks. “We clicked,” Carter said. “On our first date, we wrote a song.
We hadn’t even kissed yet.” That the song in question was a breakup song called “Too Many Teardrops” is exactly the kind of foreshadowing novelists are advised to cut for being too on the nose. They married in 1979, and Lowe, a lifelong country music obsessive, suddenly found himself married into American musical royalty.
Carlene was the daughter of country star Carl Smith and June Carter, and the stepdaughter of Johnny Cash. Cash adopted Carlene’s young daughter Tiffany, who took his surname. It required some adjustment on both sides.
“Carl Smith used to look at me with a certain amount of suspicion, which Lowe cheerfully translated as ‘It was like visiting the village idiot.'” He seemed, by his own estimation, like an English character from “Spinal Tap.” Eventually, Smith was fooled enough to show him home movies of a young Carlene being pushed in a pram by Elvis Presley.
The first meeting with Johnny Cash was like a scene from a play. Lowe was led into a bedroom in the family home in Hendersonville, Tennessee, furnished with antiques he thought might be from the Palace of Versailles, only to find the great man lying in silk pajamas, receiving visitors from a massive bed. “I thought this was as good as it gets,” Lowe said, and he wasn’t wrong.
It soon got even better. The two would stay up half the night, drunk and content, while Cash played him records he thought the young Englishman should hear, like Mahalia Jackson, Sister Rosetta Tharpe, and Johnny Horton. When the Cashes came to London, June would come down to the tiny Shepherd’s Bush kitchen in the morning wearing a bathrobe, diamond rings, and a jeweled turban.
Cash so admired Lowe’s songs that he recorded one, “Without Love,” and soon asked for another that hadn’t been written yet.
Meanwhile, Rockpile blazed briefly. They finally released an album under their own name, “Seconds of Pleasure,” in October 1980, and split within months, due to the oldest plot in the business, two big personalities on one steering wheel, plus a violent row over money and management between Edmunds and Jake Riviera. Lowe shrugged it off with a phrase that became one of his most famous: “We got together for fun, and when the fun stopped, we left.”
But beneath the nonchalance, something was beginning to sour. Throughout most of the 1980s, Lowe released albums ranging from good to merely acceptable, none recapturing that moment, while his drinking grew around him. There’s a scene near the end of a 1979 documentary about Rockpile where Edmunds, stone-cold sober, tries to intervene with his slurring friend, pleading firmly and gently: “You’ve got to stop, mate.”
Lowe didn’t, not yet. He kept touring with bands called Noise to Go and the Cowboy Outfit, releasing pleasant, inconsistent albums that audiences increasingly ignored. By his mid-30s, the accounting was internal and painful.
“I realized I was so unhappy,” he later said of those years. “Everything was going wrong. I looked in the mirror and suddenly thought, my God, who is this fat man?
I wasn’t eating anything, and yet I was so fat. Then I thought, well, this has got to stop.” His marriage to Carlene, worn down by touring, alcoholism, and the annual grind of producing a new album, as he simply described it, ended in divorce in 1990.
The same year, his record label dropped him after an album, ironically titled “Party of One.”
And here is where his story takes a strange turn. In January 1990, a few weeks before his 41st birthday, puffy and gray-haired, looking like a man whose best days were a receipt in someone’s drawer, Lowe sat before a BBC crew and, with apparent seriousness, issued a prophecy. He admitted he never imagined he’d still be doing this at 40.
Then his eyes twinkled with mischief. “The thing is, you see, now I really think I’m getting better,” he said. “I think I’m going to be really good when I’m 60.
In fact, I think I’m going to look amazing when I’m 60. I’m going to look dashing when I’m 60. But also, I think my voice is going to be great.”
It sounded like a setup for a joke. It wasn’t. “I’ll know how to write a song when I’m 60,” he insisted, waving his cigarette for emphasis.
“I’ll be at my peak. At my absolute peak.” He had no money, no label, and no earthly reason to believe a word of it.
The years immediately following were, in his own words, miserable. There was a painful split from broadcaster Tracey Thornburgh, which would later surface in his songs, and Lowe drew a fine, almost theological distinction about the resulting mood. “Being miserable is a great feeling, sort of,” he said.
“It’s not like being depressed. Depression is like an illness, whereas misery is a stage of life. One minute you’re on top of the world, full of the contentment that only true misunderstanding can bring, and the next you’re in the depths.
You’re just a wretched person who’s had a nasty shock.” He dated actress Margot Kidder, who played Lois Lane in Superman, and once, while walking her dog in the hills of Los Angeles, was directed to a private park to meet her friend Rudy, who turned out to be Rudolf Nureyev, lounging in the sun beside a dachshund whose back legs were paralyzed and dragging behind him, “almost like a water animal, like a seal,” as Lowe said. Kidder’s own dog had a deformed front leg that made it look like it was walking sideways forever.
“Look at them together, and his feet,” Nureyev said, according to Lowe’s telling. Lowe was unimpressed. “I’ve never seen anything so ugly in my life.”
Professionally, he sought new avenues. In 1991, he joined the band Little Village, alongside John Hiatt, Ry Cooder, and drummer Jim Keltner. The four reunited the lineup that had made Hiatt’s beloved album “Bring the Family” a few years earlier.
Expectations were high, but the results were not. The sole album, released in early 1992, was pleasant but forgettable. The tour was tense, and the band fell apart almost as soon as it formed.
At 42, Nick Lowe, to anyone following his career, looked like a man whose story was effectively over. And that’s exactly when it happened.
In 1974, in the last days of Brinsley Schwarz, Lowe wrote “What’s So Funny ‘Bout Peace, Love, and Understanding?” a song so closely associated with Elvis Costello’s magnificent 1979 recording that most listeners simply assumed Costello wrote it. In 1992, an American singer named Curtis Stigers released a lavish version of it, the album cut placed as a secondary addition near the end of the soundtrack to the film “The Bodyguard,” starring Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston.
The album sold nearly 40 million copies, becoming one of the best-selling albums of all time, and Lowe, as the sole author of one of its tracks, became fabulously wealthy. One journalist estimated his share at a million dollars. “It was a great stroke of luck.
I made an enormous amount of money from it,” Lowe admitted with a hint of embarrassment, like a man who knows he did nothing to earn it. He still hasn’t watched the film. “It sounds terribly dreary,” he said.
“I’ve been offered, but I don’t think it’s my sort of thing.” Friends who searched for the song in the film, baffled, reported they couldn’t find it anywhere.
Most people in his position might have retired on the royalties, bought a boat, or simply drunk it away. But Lowe did something stranger and more interesting. He used the money to buy himself the freedom to become a different, better artist, and then spent a good portion of it funding his own tours and albums that no one was asking for.
He had been planning a reinvention for years, contemplating a handful of artists who aged gracefully, among them Bob Dylan and Paul Simon, wondering how one could quote something that would carry him into his 60s. What he refused to become was a nostalgia act, a balder version of his 70s self, re-singing his hits while the audience muttered, “Oh God, this old rubbish.” He loved American roots music, but he was wary of treating it like museum artifacts.
He summed up the danger in four words: “Seriousness is the enemy.”
His comeback announced itself on November 29, 1994, with an album called “The Impossible Bird.” The title came from a phrase in a 17th-century theological letter that caught his eye in a newspaper. The jokey pop singer had vanished, replaced by a more sober, serious, and wittier writer, singing country and soul in a stripped-down style as if they were classics.
“The Beast in Me” was the album’s emotional cornerstone, and its story is the most wonderful in the Nick Lowe legend. He had started working on it years earlier, thinking of Johnny Cash, and got as far as the title and four lines before stalling. Every time the two met, Cash would fix him with his deep, gravelly voice and ask, “How’s ‘The Beast in Me’ coming along?”
Lowe thought he was joking, but he wasn’t. Then one night, watching Cash perform in London, clean and sober, Lowe finally realized the song wasn’t about his father-in-law at all. It was about himself.
He went home and finished it in under an hour. Cash recorded it for “American Recordings,” the 1994 comeback that reintroduced him to a new generation, and Lowe couldn’t believe his luck. “I don’t know if I was still writing it for Johnny Cash or if I was writing it for myself by then, but boy, was I glad when he recorded it!”
The fact that the relationship between the two men endured long after the marriage collapsed says something about Lowe. By his own account, he was the only former son-in-law who never came asking for money or a job.
From there, his second career proceeded with quiet confidence. “Did My Mood” in 1998, “To Convince Her” in 2001, “At My Age” in 2007, and “The Old Magic” in 2011, each more self-assured, like a veteran painter making smaller, more beautiful canvases. He never had another hit single, and he didn’t want one.
He found a paradox that suited him perfectly. “I’m quite aware that there’s a certain hand-made quality to my records, which will ensure that I’m not hugely famous,” he told an American broadcaster. “But it’s also because I make my living from other people doing my songs.
And there’s nothing more pleasing for an artist or a producer than to hear an unfinished song.” His audience, oddly enough, was mostly American, and a younger generation of musicians took him as a model for healthy aging. Wilco kept inviting him to their festival, and sold-out rooms of people who had never bought a Brinsley Schwarz record sat listening to a silver-haired Englishman sing about disappointment, humor, and twelve-step programs as if he’d invented them.
His personal life finally settled. In 2000, at a screening of a documentary about Sun Records founder Sam Phillips, he met a graphic designer named Peta Waddington, who immediately told him she could design much better album covers than the ones he had, a joke he apparently found irresistible. In 2005, at the age of 56, Lowe became a father again, to a son he named Roy, and embraced late fatherhood with shy delight, complaining only about the indignity of swapping his Mercedes for a station wagon.
He married Waddington in 2010. Around the same time Roy arrived, he quit smoking for good, not out of virtue but out of embarrassment. Singing at a neighbor’s house party, he was seized by a coughing fit he couldn’t control.
“It was funny at first,” he said, “and then it wasn’t funny anymore.”
Not everything was smooth. Two of his closest musical companions, drummer Bobby Irwin and engineer and co-producer Neil Brockbank, died of cancer within two years of each other, in 2015 and 2017. For a while, Lowe wasn’t sure he could make another album.
What got him through, ironically, was a masked surf band. Los Straitjackets, who play in Mexican wrestling masks and share his record label, became his touring band and then his collaborators. This work, marked by a wonderful sense of humor, was his statement.
On stage these days, Lowe is the only man not wearing a wrestling mask. In 2013, he released an album of Christmas songs called “Quality Street,” with complete seriousness and a wry smile. In 2014, at the age of 75, he released his seventeenth solo album, “Indoor Safari,” and has continued to tour, playing the Newport Folk Festival, Wilco’s Solid Sound festival, and small halls filled with his devoted fans.
“I don’t feel 75,” he said upon its release. “Yes, I feel older, but in a rather nice way.”
The young man who was supposed to look great at 60 has, as predicted, delivered on his promise and more. There’s a beautiful, almost startling symmetry to it all. Nick Lowe produced the foundational albums of British punk, then spent the rest of his life as its temperamental opposite, offering gentleness, intelligence, and craft in a genre that prized noise.
He called one of his albums “Jesus of Cool,” then quietly redefined cool as a willingness to age without pretending not to. His greatest songs, “Cruel to Be Kind,” “What’s So Funny ‘Bout Peace, Love, and Understanding,” and “The Beast in Me,” all have the ability to completely disguise their author, sounding as if they were found, not written, which is perhaps the highest compliment a songwriter can receive, a skill only the best possess. He remains, proudly, a marginal figure in his influence, revered by musicians while remaining largely unknown to others, and he is perfectly content with that.
“I walk down the street with a shuffle, almost unknown,” he said, and the relief in his voice was genuine. He has finally built the career he mapped out for that skeptical BBC crew in the cigarette smoke of 1990. The real mystery behind the man is that there was no mystery at all, just patience, a distaste for seriousness, and a check from a movie he refused to watch.
The late luck was the kind reserved for those who stop waiting for it. The rest he made himself, song by song.