The world of classic television was shaken to its core when a long-buried interview with the legendary Redd Foxx surfaced, revealing an unexpected and deeply personal connection with Nancy Kulp, the actress who played the prim and proper Miss Jane Hathaway on The Beverly Hillbillies. In footage that has only now come to light, Foxx, the gravel-voiced king of uncensored comedy and star of Sanford and Son, broke decades of silence to share a truth that no one saw coming. The two icons, who seemed to inhabit entirely different universes of entertainment, were not just acquaintances but close friends who supported each other through the brutal realities of Hollywood.
Foxx’s revelations paint a picture of a bond built on mutual respect, survival, and a shared understanding of what it meant to be an outsider in an industry that often tried to make them smaller.
The interview, taped just a few years before Foxx’s sudden death in 1991, shows the comedian in a rare moment of vulnerability. Seated in a leather chair with a cigar in hand, Foxx dismissed the tabloid rumors that had swirled for decades about a romantic relationship between him and Kulp. “Nancy romantic?
Nah, man. She was too classy for a rascal like me,” he said with a chuckle. “She used to say I was her favorite troublemaker.
We weren’t lovers. We were something better. We were survivors.”
That single line reframes the entire narrative around their relationship, stripping away the sensationalism and revealing a profound friendship that thrived in the shadows of the spotlight.
Their first meeting took place in the late 1950s, long before either of them became household names. The setting was a nondescript diner on Hollywood Boulevard, a place where the walls were yellowed from cigarette smoke and the jukebox rarely worked. Foxx was still grinding on the Chitlin Circuit, playing clubs in South Central Los Angeles, sleeping on couches, and living on cigarettes and adrenaline.
Kulp, tall and dry-witted, was bouncing between obscure character roles and voiceover gigs, too quirky and intellectual for most casting agents to understand. They bonded that night over what Foxx called “ridiculous audition stories” and the fake smiles they had to wear in an industry that constantly tried to diminish them.
What started as a one-night conversation turned into years of impromptu meetups, notes exchanged between soundstages, and long late-night phone calls. Foxx described Kulp as a woman with a mind sharper than a switchblade, someone who could take down a fool with a single sentence without ever raising her voice. “She never pretended,” Foxx said.
“In this business, that’s rare.” Their friendship was built on a foundation of shared experience, both of them knowing what it was like to be typecast, underestimated, and told in so many words that they didn’t belong. Kulp, with her buttoned-up intellectual charm, and Foxx, with his raucous, rule-breaking persona, found common ground in their refusal to be boxed in.
The most stunning revelation from the interview centers on a quiet act of advocacy that Kulp performed behind the scenes. As Sanford and Son was gearing up for its 1972 premiere, controversy brewed among network executives at NBC. There were whispers that Foxx was too rough around the edges, that the show was too black, too bold, too real for middle America.
Unbeknownst to Foxx at the time, Kulp wrote a letter to a senior NBC executive. In it, she praised Foxx’s brilliance and argued that his rough edges were the point of his comedy. “She makes us laugh,” she wrote, “but more importantly, she makes us look.”
Foxx found out about the letter years later purely by accident. “She never told me she did that,” he said, visibly moved. “No spotlight, no fanfare.
Just grace.”
That act of support became a defining moment for Foxx. He admitted that he modeled parts of his iconic character Fred Sanford after Kulp. “I modeled Fred Sanford after a bunch of folks I knew, my uncle, a couple of old-timers from St.
Louis,” he explained. “But there were little pieces of Nancy in there, too. That sharp tongue, that quiet pride, that ‘I see through your nonsense’ attitude.”
It is a startling admission from a man known for his uncompromising comedy, revealing that even the most original voices are shaped by the people who believe in them. Kulp’s influence on one of television’s most enduring characters is a truth that has remained hidden for decades.
Their friendship was never performative. They did not attend galas arm-in-arm or pose for cameras. It was built in the spaces between the spotlight and shadow, backstage over late-night calls and handwritten notes passed between dressing rooms.
Foxx recalled how Kulp once came to see him perform at a small, smoky comedy club in Los Angeles. She was the only white woman in the place, he said, grinning. “She sat right in the front row, laughing harder than anyone else.
After the show, she came backstage and told me, ‘Your comedy is a protest wrapped in profanity. Keep going.’” That moment of validation from someone he respected deeply meant more to Foxx than any award or accolade.
The bond between Foxx and Kulp also had a political dimension. Kulp was outspoken in her political beliefs, later running for Congress as a Democrat in Pennsylvania. Foxx privately supported her campaign, admiring her willingness to stand up for what she believed in.
In return, she respected his battles for equal pay and representation in an industry designed to keep black entertainers at the margins. Their friendship was not built on fame but on mutual respect and truthtelling. “She got me,” Foxx said simply.
“That’s rare in this business.” In a town where friendships were often transactional and fleeting, theirs endured because it was built on the quiet recognition that two people, however different they appeared on paper, could understand each other at a soul level.
Nancy Kulp passed away in 1991, the same year as Foxx, but her legacy in his life has remained largely unknown until now. Foxx never forgot what she gave him, not just the support but the permission to be himself in a world that kept trying to reshape him. “She had my back before anyone with a suit did,” he said, tipping his hat in the interview’s final moments.
“That means more than all the awards in the world.” In that moment, with no punchline and no act, Redd Foxx reminded the world that even the sharpest voices need someone who listens, someone who believes. Sometimes comedy changes culture, but sometimes it is friendship that changes the comedian.
The interview also sheds light on Foxx’s own complex personal life, which was marked by four marriages and a relentless pursuit of his craft. He was born John Elroy Sanford on December 9, 1922, in St. Louis, Missouri, the son of a Pullman porter and a fiercely independent mother.
His childhood was shaped by poverty and racism on the south side of Chicago, where he learned early how to survive. He dropped out of school in the 10th grade and hit the road, finding his calling on the Chitlin Circuit, a network of clubs where black entertainers could perform far from segregated Hollywood. His comedy was unfiltered, explicit, and blisteringly honest, talking about sex, racism, and the hypocrisy of society in ways no one had dared before.
By the 1950s and 1960s, Foxx had become the king of party records, recording over 50 comedy albums that were too risque for radio but sold under the counter and passed between friends. These recordings helped break down racial barriers in entertainment and paved the way for future comedians like Richard Pryor, Eddie Murphy, and Chris Rock. Foxx wasn’t just telling jokes, he was redefining comedy with the raw urgency of protest and the sharp intelligence of jazz.
He made people laugh, but also flinch, reflect, and often rethink what they believed about race, sex, power, and American life. He was a revolutionary dressed in a cheap suit, armed with a microphone and a cackle that could shatter windows.
His mainstream breakthrough came in 1972 with Sanford and Son, a sharp, character-driven comedy about a cranky junk dealer and his long-suffering son living in Watts, Los Angeles. Foxx played Fred G. Sanford with such effortless brilliance that it felt less like acting and more like living.
The show was historic, centering a working-class black family with depth and complexity at a time when prime-time television largely ignored black life. It became a ratings juggernaut, often ranking in the top 10 and attracting millions of viewers each week. Foxx went from cult icon to mainstream star, but fame never made him soft.
He demanded respect in an industry that had rarely given it to performers who looked like him, fighting for equal pay and clashing with executives over creative control.
Behind the scenes, Foxx’s personal life was just as colorful and complicated. He was married four times, each marriage representing a new chapter in his journey. His first marriage to Evelyn Kibru in 1948 lasted only three years, ending during the years of instability and ambition when the demands of the road made family life impossible.
His second marriage to Betty Jean Harris in 1956 was far more significant. Harris, a showgirl and dancer, gave up her own career to become the CEO of Redd Foxx Enterprises, managing his business empire and adopting his daughter. However, after over 20 years of marriage, their partnership disintegrated due to Foxx’s infidelity, leading to a sour and widely publicized divorce in 1974.
His third marriage to Joy Yuni Chung in 1976 was riddled with turmoil. Chung, who was about 20 years younger than Foxx, filed a counter-suit alleging cruelty when Foxx initiated divorce proceedings in 1979. Foxx, disillusioned, told Jet magazine that he was done with marriage, saying the money he spent on divorce settlements would have been better spent on children.
Despite swearing he would never marry again, Foxx found his fourth and final marriage to Kaho Cho in 1991. This union was founded on mutual support and loyalty, particularly during one of the most difficult periods of Foxx’s life, his struggles with the Internal Revenue Service that had nearly caused him to go bankrupt. Cho stood by his side until his dying days.
Foxx’s death on October 11, 1991, was as shocking and ironic as his life. He was on the set of his new comedy, The Royal Family, which was intended to signal his triumphant comeback to television. During a break from rehearsals, he was speaking with an Entertainment Tonight reporter when a producer abruptly halted the conversation.
Foxx was escorted back to the set to perform a minor role, walking across the stage behind a chair with no lines to deliver. As he completed the action, he collapsed. Initially, many on set laughed or watched quietly, believing Foxx was up to one of his stunts, a faux heart attack like the ones his character Fred Sanford had famously faked for years.
But Dela Ree, his co-star, sensed something was wrong. She heard him say, “Get my wife,” a terribly human appeal that he repeated again.
Paramedics rushed Foxx to Queen of Angels Hollywood Presbyterian Medical Center, where physicians attempted to save his life. He was momentarily revived, but his condition was serious. Despite the best efforts of medical personnel, Redd Foxx was declared dead four and a half hours later.
He was 68 years old. His death signaled not just the end of an extraordinary life but the silencing of one of comedy’s most creative and uncensored voices. Eddie Murphy, who revered and collaborated with Foxx, stepped in to cover all funeral costs, ensuring his friend had the honorable farewell he deserved.
Foxx was laid to rest in Palm Memorial Park in Las Vegas, Nevada, a city he adored and performed in for many years.
The revelation of Foxx’s friendship with Nancy Kulp adds a new layer to his legacy. It shows a man who, despite his rough exterior, valued loyalty, intelligence, and grace. Kulp, who passed away earlier in 1991, never lived to see Foxx’s tribute, but his words ensure that her role in his life will not be forgotten.
In a world that often reduces celebrities to their on-screen personas, this story reminds us that the most meaningful connections often happen away from the cameras. Foxx’s interview is a testament to the power of friendship across boundaries of race, class, and public image. It is a truth that no one expected, but one that enriches our understanding of two of television’s most beloved figures.